How to Sort out Laziness in Men
We all know very well that once men are in a comfortable position they can get very complacent and lazy and feel that they need to do nothing in order to keep a relationship healthy, let alone existing. Men unfortunately need a good prodding from the offset so that they don't turn into a bundle of lazybones hogging your favorite piece of furniture! Too many women complain that their men just don't do enough but it is women who have cossetted and pampered these men in the first place, so of course WHY SHOULD THEY BOTHER TO PLEASE?
In the end, these men are usually dumped and the women find themselves confused and disillusioned but it doesn't have to be that way as many of these men are probably loving and kind people but just need the right directives to set them straight a little. As men are Hunters they like to chase women and once they have gotten the women, the chasing stops and the laziness sets in. That is what you don't want, even ten years down the line so here are some tips to avoid male procrastination problems.
- Don't allow him to always set YOU timetable for a start, let him also know that HE has to compromise and if he wants to do something on one weekend, you should be able to choose the following weekend. Loving your man doesn't mean giving into ALL of his demands while relinquishing your own.
- Don't pamper him to death at home and do all of the household chores yourself. Let him also cook for you and do some of the boring work. You didn't do it all for him before you met hims so why do it ALL for him all the time. We know women are generally more domesticated than men but this is only because OUR MOTHERS taught them that way!
- Don't stick to him like glue, go out with friends and relatives and retain some of your own hobbies and interests.
- Show your man that you are not a drudge and that even after many years together you can be appealing and attractive, and don't let him think that he has you forever if he has a lazy attitude.
- Keep some financial freedom for yourself because giving him the reigns means that he can control you like a remote control toy and will never want to please you in any way, just himself.
- Don't act like his slave because simply put, you are not.
- Make sure he doesn't always know your innermost thoughts as giving all you got at once will make him feel that he has nothing else to learn from you.
- DO NOT UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCE GIVE HIM FULL CONTROL OVER YOUR TV REMOTE CONTROL, YOU ARE ASKING FOR TROUBLE!
